put yourself first
This is perhaps the best thing anyone can do to increase their sense of wellbeing and to lift the spirit. I has become clear to me in the last month or so that people that don’t do this are stressed beyond belief. Stress causes horrible weight gain, sickness, and overall dysfunction in the family unit.
Is it selfish to put one’s self first? Absolutely not.
Selfishness is keeping your entire self to yourself and not ever giving of your time to anyone. This occurs especially with people with children that do everything for their children and nothing for themselves. It’s only natural to want to do everything for the children, but to sacrifice yourself doesn’t do anyone any good. And eventually the family unit will suffer.
1) Get your spiritual house in order, whatever that may be.
2) Be one with your family, resolve any differences with the ones you love or leave them behind. This is perhaps the hardest choice many have to make. It doesn’t do any good to have stress in the family unit as it only brings everybody down.
3) Do what you love to make money. Don’t keep working at a job that stresses you out. As this will only make everyone around you stressed. It takes courage to move. If you can’t move into a job, then consider a business. Find something that’s fun that you can do and eventually the dollars will come.
Personal : Comments (0) : posted Jun 2nd, 2008 by blaster
