Posts Tagged ‘love’

put yourself first

This is perhaps the best thing anyone can do to increase their sense of wellbeing and to lift the spirit. I has become clear to me in the last month or so that people that don’t do this are stressed beyond belief. Stress causes horrible weight gain, sickness, and overall dysfunction in the family unit.

Is it selfish to put one’s self first? Absolutely not.

Selfishness is keeping your entire self to yourself and not ever giving of your time to anyone. This occurs especially with people with children that do everything for their children and nothing for themselves. It’s only natural to want to do everything for the children, but to sacrifice yourself doesn’t do anyone any good. And eventually the family unit will suffer.

1) Get your spiritual house in order, whatever that may be.

2) Be one with your family, resolve any differences with the ones you love or leave them behind. This is perhaps the hardest choice many have to make. It doesn’t do any good to have stress in the family unit as it only brings everybody down.

3) Do what you love to make money. Don’t keep working at a job that stresses you out. As this will only make everyone around you stressed. It takes courage to move. If you can’t move into a job, then consider a business. Find something that’s fun that you can do and eventually the dollars will come.

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Filed under Personal : Comments (0) : Jun 2nd, 2008

All is not lost…

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Filed under Personal : Comments (0) : Mar 9th, 2008

You only hurt the one you love…

You only hurt the one you love. The other day, I was chatting with some friends when the woman I want to spend the rest of my life with said she had bat land on here head, in her office no less. This loving, caring person believes in the Wiccan philosophy. My ignorance and stereotypical attitude toward this led me down a path that I should not have taken. Suffice it to say. I hurt her deeply. Very deeply, to the core of her existence. She has had some horrible stuff happen to her in the past and my ignorance just brought that shit bubbling back to the surface.

My dear, I am sooo very sorry. I now know that I hurt you very deeply. And only because you told me. I am a man after all, and understanding women is not my greatest strength.

I can only hope that she can find it in her heart to forgive me. I also hope that our relationship is strong enough to survive this. But, what I want is irrelevant, it’s what she wants that matters most to me. I would have gladly given my heart, my life, my very existence to be with you forever. But now, everything we had, everything we experienced together, the love, the trust, the caring for one another is now just fucking gone. Just because I was ignorant.

My God, I feel like such an ass.

I’m gonna go cry in my pillow now.

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Filed under Personal : Comments (0) : Mar 8th, 2008